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Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother

By Amy Chua

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An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese way.

All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is t Continue

An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese way.

All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is that the Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that. Western parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions and providing a nurturing environment. The Chinese believe that the best way to protect your children is by preparing them for the future and arming them with skills, strong work habits, and inner confidence. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother chronicles Chua's iron-willed decision to raise her daughters, Sophia and Lulu, her way-the Chinese way-and the remarkable results her choice inspires.

Here are some things Amy Chua would never allow her daughters to do:

• have a playdate
• be in a school play
• complain about not being in a school play
• not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
• not play the piano or violin

The truth is Lulu and Sophia would never have had time for a playdate. They were too busy practicing their instruments (two to three hours a day and double sessions on the weekend) and perfecting their Mandarin.

Of course no one is perfect, including Chua herself. Witness this scene:

"According to Sophia, here are three things I actually said to her at the piano as I supervised her practicing:

1. Oh my God, you're just getting worse and worse.
2. I'm going to count to three, then I want musicality.
3. If the next time's not PERFECT, I'm going to take all your stuffed animals and burn them!"

But Chua demands as much of herself as she does of her daughters. And in her sacrifices-the exacting attention spent studying her daughters' performances, the office hours lost shuttling the girls to lessons-the depth of her love for her children becomes clear. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is an eye-opening exploration of the differences in Eastern and Western parenting- and the lessons parents and children everywhere teach one another.

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  • Book Review: Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua Share

    Whether you agree with Amy Chua's controversial ideas about parenting as outlined in her best selling apologia, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, two things seem incontrovertible. Either because of or in spite of those ideas, she and her husband manag ... (read full critics)

    blogcritics published on Fri, 20 May 2011

  • Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua

    Amy Chua has firm beliefs about parenting. She brought up her two daughters, Sophia and Lulu, using a strict set of rules – including no sleepovers, no playdates, no school plays, no choice of extra curricular activity, no grades less than an A, and ... (read full critics)

    thebookbag published on Fri, 25 Feb 2011

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    I don't think this is a book about which way of raising children, the Chinese parenting or the Western one, is better. Contrarily, I think this is a book about how a tough-minded mother could be so adapted, in order to figure out a way to help her rebellious kid to be a good girl. The mother-daughte ... (continue)

    I don't think this is a book about which way of raising children, the Chinese parenting or the Western one, is better. Contrarily, I think this is a book about how a tough-minded mother could be so adapted, in order to figure out a way to help her rebellious kid to be a good girl. The mother-daughter conflict always leads to growth: not only the growth of daughters, but also the growth of Moms.

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    Alveole Wu said on Apr 19, 2011 | Add your feedback

  • 1 person find this helpful

    Surprise: it's not what you think!

    My hub gave me this book because he wanted to show me what a stresfull mother I can be. He wanted to offer me a mirror image to myself in order for me to be shocked and to learn how to be a good mother. Well, this book was a fantastic surprise: Amy Chua actually revised her raising method and joined ... (continue)

    My hub gave me this book because he wanted to show me what a stresfull mother I can be. He wanted to offer me a mirror image to myself in order for me to be shocked and to learn how to be a good mother. Well, this book was a fantastic surprise: Amy Chua actually revised her raising method and joined to very different conclusions from those she has been "accused" of. I really loved this book!

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    Clara Mazzi said on Dec 5, 2011 about the Others edition | Add your feedback

  • Although I do not agree with the way Amy Chua raised her daughters, (I'm soooo Western!) I did gain a bit of understanding about why she chose to raise them the way she did. While I think that her methods were harsh and possibly painful to her daughters, I did feel that she had her daughters best in ... (continue)

    Although I do not agree with the way Amy Chua raised her daughters, (I'm soooo Western!) I did gain a bit of understanding about why she chose to raise them the way she did. While I think that her methods were harsh and possibly painful to her daughters, I did feel that she had her daughters best interests in mind. This book has also given me a bit more insight as to why foreign national children behave/succeed the way they do.

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    Angela Dutton Vranish said on May 3, 2012 about the Others edition | Add your feedback

  • I bought this book from Singapore. I think it serves as the best souvenir because Singapore is also a place of mix and match. No wonder it stays top at Page one there.
    The general comparison between Western and Chinese parental guidance is fascinating. Being strict, shouting with discouraging words ... (continue)

    I bought this book from Singapore. I think it serves as the best souvenir because Singapore is also a place of mix and match. No wonder it stays top at Page one there.
    The general comparison between Western and Chinese parental guidance is fascinating. Being strict, shouting with discouraging words and complaining about A- are generally the methods used in Chinese family. By contracts their Western counterparts adopt a more "open" approach. They let their children to decide and join. And the result is Asian offspring performed better in academic, music and sports.
    The Chinese mother author compares her two daughters. The elder is obedient and the younger is the opposite, even she called "rebellious". Anyway both of them are outstanding among the social group.
    Yet I would say the structure of the last parts are loose. Talking about dogs and her sisters are making the book more like a biography. The author also admits she does not know how to end. I think it is absolutely a bad ending.

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    Chenghonfai said on Jul 18, 2011 about the Others edition | Add your feedback

  • This book generally provides a biased personal view about the difference between Chinese (mainly immigrant families) and Western parenting. But the way of telling those family anecdotes is candid and hilarious. What it touches me most is how mother and daughter relationship could deteriorate to a de ... (continue)

    This book generally provides a biased personal view about the difference between Chinese (mainly immigrant families) and Western parenting. But the way of telling those family anecdotes is candid and hilarious. What it touches me most is how mother and daughter relationship could deteriorate to a degree which every word they say is meant to hurt each other; while recover with more understanding, love and hugs.

    Chinese review is here (中文心得在此):http://renewangtw.blogspot.com/2011/05/tiger-mother.html

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    Renewang said on Apr 26, 2011 | Add your feedback

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  • Hardcover 256 Pages
  • ISBN-10: 1594202842
  • ISBN-13: 9781594202841
  • Publisher: Penguin Press
  • Pub date: Jan 11, 2011
  • Also available as: Others and eBook
  • In other languages: other languages 繁體書, 简体书
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