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The Tender Bar

A Memoir

By J.R. Moehringer

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| Hardcover | 9781401300647

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A moving, vividly told memoir full of heart, drama, and exquisite comic timing, about a boy striving to become a man, and his romance with a barJ .R. Moehringer grew up listening for a voice: It was the sound of his missing father, a disc jockey who disappeared before J.R. spoke his first words. As Continue

A moving, vividly told memoir full of heart, drama, and exquisite comic timing, about a boy striving to become a man, and his romance with a barJ .R. Moehringer grew up listening for a voice: It was the sound of his missing father, a disc jockey who disappeared before J.R. spoke his first words. As a boy, J.R. would press his ear to a clock radio, straining to hear in that resonant voice the secrets of masculinity, and the keys to his own identity. J.R.+s mother was his world, his anchor, but he needed something else, something more, something he couldn+t name. So he turned to the bar on the corner, a grand old New York saloon that was a sanctuary for all types of men-cops and poets, actors and lawyers, gamblers and stumblebums. The flamboyant characters along the bar-including J.R.+s Uncle Charlie, a Humphrey Bogart look-alike; Colt, a Yogi Bear sound-alike; Joey D, a soft-hearted brawler; and Cager, a war hero who raised handicapping horses to an art-taught J.R., tended him, and provided a kind of fatherhood by committee. When the time came for J.R. to leave home, the bar became a way station-from his entrance to Yale, where he floundered as a scholarship student way out of his element; to his introduction to tragic romance with a woman way out of his league; to his stint as a copy boy at the New York Times, where he was a faulty cog in a vast machine way out of his control. Through it all, the bar offered shelter from failure, from rejection, and eventually from reality-until at last the bar turned J.R. away.Riveting, moving, and achingly funny, The Tender Bar is at once an evocative portrait of one boy+s struggle to become a man, and a touching depiction of how some men remain lost boys.

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     這是一本,即使你不懂煙不懂酒,甚至不愛煙不愛酒,還是會給人煙霧瀰漫酒氣加身的感覺。
     沒有嗆人的煙味和作嘔的酒氣,而是茫茫然地,就這麼迷醉於作者淡淡的溫柔感傷語調。
     也是因為這樣的舉重若輕,那些讓人感傷的童年往事和令人神傷的男女之情,反反覆覆彈唱著的好男人養成,在終曲時仍是孑然一身的作者,和陸續凋零或消失無影的故舊,就更顯得酸意楚楚。
     我不知道這本書的中文版翻得如何,但英文版裡那種點根煙喝著小酒,娓娓道來三十多年過往的自若,讓人即使得抱著字典才能把全書看完,卻仍一頁一頁翻過不能罷手的無法抗拒。
     

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  • I loved this book!! I had heard about it this spring when I went to WEMA and from one our staff members at HHS. Moehringer made me laugh out loud and cry. He wrote so well that at times I was so frustrated with him I wanted to yell at him as if I was his mother! I am so excited this book just came o ... (continue)

    I loved this book!! I had heard about it this spring when I went to WEMA and from one our staff members at HHS. Moehringer made me laugh out loud and cry. He wrote so well that at times I was so frustrated with him I wanted to yell at him as if I was his mother! I am so excited this book just came out in paperback, so I can suggest it for book club. Moehringer refered to The Great Gatsby a lot as well as other classic literature which kind makes me want to re-visit those or try some out. My favorite parts...the first time J.R. went to the beach with the men and when J.R. met and got to know Bill and Bud. I am looking forward to reading this again.8/1/2006--I saw J.R.!! He looks so much better in person. He spoke at a bookstore in Milwaukee, WI. He was wonderful. He made us laugh and had some of us close to tears. I look forward to reading his articles in the L.A. Times. He called himself a "literary journalist".

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  • English Books
  • Hardcover 384 Pages
  • ISBN-10: 1401300642
  • ISBN-13: 9781401300647
  • Publisher: Hyperion
  • Pub date: Sep 01, 2005
  • Dimensions: 25 cm x 17 cm x 3 cm Just how big is that?
  • Also available as: Paperback and Audio CD
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    • <span class='translatable' lang='Cover of '{[title]}''>Cover of '溫柔酒吧'</span>
      溫柔酒吧
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    • <span class='translatable' lang='Cover of '{[title]}''>Cover of 'The Tender Bar'</span>
      The Tender Bar
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