The author provides lots of good ideas for introverts to excel in the world which boast extroverts. I believe those tips would be helpful for some introverts. Yet I am expecting more on how an introvert is really having their advantage, where they could feel thrill being an introvert. It seems that the author uses a different perspective when writing this book. Not anyone's fault, just not my expectation....Continua
Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it.
The strongest distinguishing characteristic of introverts is their energy source: Introverts draw energy from their internal world of ideas, emotions, and impressions. They are energy conservers. They can be easily overstimulated by the external world, experiencing the uncomfortable feeling of “too much.” This can feel like antsyness or torpor. In either case, they need to limit their social experiences so they don’t get drained. However, introverts need to balance their alone time with outside time, or they can lose other perspectives and connections. Introverted people who balance their energy have perseverance and the ability to think independently, focus deeply, and work creatively.
Introverts are like a rechargeable battery. They need to stop expending energy and rest in order to recharge. This is what a less stimulating environment provides for introverts. It restores energy. It is their natural niche.
Extroverts are like solar panels. For extroverts, being alone, or inside, is like living under a heavy cloud cover. Solar panels need the sun to recharge—extroverts need to be out and about to refuel. Like introversion, extroversion is a hard-wired temperament. It cannot be changed. You can learn to work with it, not against it.
Speaking about Introvert, I read "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain first. Although I do learn something new in this book, I am disappointed in two fronts:
i) the description somehow single-dimensional - there are different types of introverts and extroverts out there!
ii) the narration and suggestions are rather superficial and shallow. They are just very general. Plenty of them are offered in 101 courses for Positive Psychology, Time Management, etc.